Professional Online Dating comes with no strings attached

* Professional online dating agencies suggest you be pro active about private talks. Never initiate them, never entertain them. Maintain discretion. Start off politely and formally and gradually make the talk casual. A casual approach in talking ensures you are a very light hearted person who likes to draw a line while talking to someone. Neither you go personal nor do you let anyone cross the line.

* Never give out any personal details that potentially risk your privacy. You do that and you let yourself down again. Professional online dating agencies operating chat rooms always recommend you never do this unless you really feel you can confide in the guy. Get to know him so well that you feel he is totally harmless. Till then, any attempt toward a personal probe ought to be dealt with a firm NO!

* Avert disclosing your location and marital status. Professional online dating agencies prioritize this very highly. Certain perverts frequent such chat rooms to prey on single ladies trying to lead a very discreet and silent life. They stalk them, show up at their doors everyday and create such unbearable chaos that one feels compelled to call the cops and have things cleaned out. Avoid bringing such a situation up.

* Professional online dating agencies suggest you never talk about your personal life. Opportunists look out for openings. The moment they see holes in your story, they play the emotional card and try to divert your attention. Try not to give into all that horse crap. You might have divorced your spouse or lost custody of your children, but never share these details with the guy you date online. He sympathizes with you on your face but senses a golden opportunity otherwise. He tries to be your agony uncle and solicits you on how to move on in life and choose a new partner you can confide in. It is a trap. Never fall for it.

There are no ground rules as such. Just some very certain tried and tested points you follow to stay out of trouble. Online dating stays fun as long as you think of it that way. The moment you get too personal or think you have gone overboard is the moment when trouble starts coming in big time.

You follow these tips and you stay out of trouble as well as get to have a lot of fun along.